Would you ever date a porn star?

[ciallkennett]

After reading through the "Slut or Virgin?" topic, a question instantly popped into my brain:

Would I date a porn star?

Well, if I thought about the positives, I could say she's be bloody well experienced, wouldn't be afraid to try pretty much everything, would probably swallow, would probably invite over a few friends to join in, would have a stunning body and would always be clean, hygienic and shaven!

On the negative side, she'd be ****ing a lot of guys which would make the sex we have feel meaningless, she'd probably fake orgasm, they'd be all over the internet and loads of guys would be jacking off to them and she's likely to have fake tan, fake hair, fake boobs and probably a fake personality.

So, could you settle down with an adult film star?

 

[Hixee]

No. Without getting in to too much detail, I've been with girls who will do most things porn stars will do (bar the anal mostly), but they're just far more genuine.

Whilst yes, a pornstar would be a fantastic shag, they're probably not going to be that caring etc. Having said that, if a pornstar actually, seriously, honestly watned to date me? Well, I'd be a bit of a goon to say no I think!

 

[ECG]

Never dated a porn star, but I went out with a few strippers. Of course there's a big difference, but I don't think it matters one way or the other. If I liked a girl I asked her out, unless she had a boyfriend.

 

[Error]

Nope.

Great sex? Oh yeah. Great date? Hell no.

 

[Ben]

I would, yeah.

People jacking over my boyfriend would be amazing cause I'd be ****ing him whilst they're at home wishing they were <3

 

[Snoo]

^So would how many other guys while he works.

That's my thing.. I don't like people touching my lady while she is mine.. and to be with many men? **** that.

 

[LiveForTheLaunch]

NO ha, I have jealousy problems over stupid crap so there's not a chance anyone I'm going out with will be having sex with any other girl. Plus I wouldn't want him to think the porn star was so amazing and more experienced than me when it came time to do the dirty with me . Plus porn stars barely have safe sex and such so I don't want STDs.

 

[ciallkennett]

Plus porn stars barely have safe sex and such so I don't want STDs.

They all get tested once a month minimum - industry standard. Very few actually catch anything while at work

 

[nadroJ]

I would have to say no, not because I'd be jealous of them having sex with other people because surely you'd have known that before you got into a relationship with them? Anyway, I'm reading Jenna Jameson's biography and if you date people in the industry then they end up either getting no work or they will only work with one person - you. There aren't many porn star relationships that have survived if one or the other is working with other people, it just ends up like a car crash.

And plus I wouldn't see it as you'd be getting the best sex ever. I'd see it as my man is tired from ****ing like a champ all day and so when it comes down to it he'll just want to get it over with and won't be bothered with giving me his best moves. Boring ;]

 

[kimahri]

Depends on the porn star...

One of the 2 girls who have a specific cup. No tah.

 

[Snoo]

Plus porn stars barely have safe sex and such so I don't want STDs.

They all get tested once a month minimum - industry standard. Very few actually catch anything while at work

Agreed. The porn industry is the safest sex you can have really.

 

[kimahri]

^ Could be worse.

 

[Snoo]

^ Either way, if you're having hundreds of penises in your vag, STDs or not, it's still disgusting.

EDIT- This is Taylor

And? That wasn't my point. It is safer then banging people you don't know or haven't been tested.. regardless of number.

 

[thx]

And plus I wouldn't see it as you'd be getting the best sex ever. I'd see it as my man is tired from like a champ all day and so when it comes down to it he'll just want to get it over with and won't be bothered with giving me his best moves. Boring ;]

Exactly, and I saw this documentary where this pornstar dude said that in his work he gets his desires more than satisfied, so on freetime he focuses on hanging around with friends and just talking to people etc as he doesn't need to 'stress' about women etc.

Also as for me, considering sex, I wouldn't really want to date a pornstar, because, with the risk of sounding a bit crude, there could be a huge possibility that her vag might have become like the mariana trench or so...

 

[Dave]

Dammit there was no jokes about vah-jay-jay's until tommy's post, dammit.

Oh and no, as her boobs may be fake and would put me off.

 

[ECG]

Funny how everyone is focused solely on sex with a porn star & not on whether you like the person or not. To me, that what it all should come down to - if you like the girl or guy.
What if you had no idea that the person was a porn star? You met them, like them & had a good time together in a public place that you met. Of course you would ask them out, right? So then you go out & all this is confirmed with a great date where you both hit it off really well & you ask them out again. Then before the next date you find out that they're a porn star, so what do you do? Cancel the date even though you both like each other or go ahead with the next date for the same reason?
I think it all comes down to liking the person & how the two of you feel about each other, not the fact that they're a porn star.

 

[Dave]

Yes but when you like someone it's a mix of sexual and personal liking for someone.

Can't have just sexual otherwise we're in the slut/virgin area, if its personality then surely that's a friend thing?

 

[tomahawk]

As bad as it is to say, you can sometimes tell if a girl is a stripper or in porn by what they wear, and their mannerism. Saying that, it would really depend. I probably would say no, but like Jerry said, if I didn't know before hand, and had met her and we were having a great time, and hit things off great, I would probably go with it. The only think that would concern me is what people would say, but in reality I would probably just tell them to go **** themselves. If I did, before anything got serious, I would tell her that she would have to decide between her job, or me, as I couldn't be in a serious relationship with someone who did that.

 

[Jools]

If 'Secret Diary of a Call Girl' is anything to go by... no. Similar concept I guess.

 

[ECG]

^That's the thing. I went out with a few strippers (as I already said), the first two I had no idea that's what they did. In New York City you can't assume that because the girl you met in a nightclub is an absolute knockout that she's a stripper. I had so much fun & such a good relationship with both of them, that I went out with other strippers after that knowing full well what they did beforehand. I also wasn't embarrassed by it at all. In fact, there were a number of times that people complimented me for being able to go out with those girls because they knew that they are very picky about who they date. It also never got too serious in those relationships, so it wasn't a problem that they did what they did for a living. If it had gotten serious, I probably would have wanted the stripping to stop.