Okay Joey, just to put this straight ( ), I don't entirely disagree with your argument. I completely agree that there can be such a huge number of factors that dictate the way that we develop. The problem is purely that there's no evidence to point in any direction...
The thing that blurs the issue is that there's no clear collection of data. While estimates are 15% of people are homosexual, there are also "findings" that around 10% of people just don't care in a true bisexual sense.
You're right that we tend to try and mimic what we see as we grow up, and for those 10%, then they will almost certainly be more comfortable going "the way of their parents". It's not a choice, it's just a preference - like an ambidextrous person may favour one hand over another because the world makes life easier to be one way or the other (right handed ). Eventually habit and comfort make you unaware there was perhaps another way you could have gone.
Jake also brings up a good point. Under a highly emotional, psychological trauma, then I think that things like sexuality can be determined. It's not something that is common though, and it's certainly not something that I'd hope is relevant to the discussion about parenting At an age where you're emotionally vulnerable, then your psychological profile can be twisted into a psychosis. I doubt anyone that has ever been under the stress of rape or molestation will ever have a truly natural/normal attitude towards sex anyway -hmmm, if there is such a thing.
As for "sexual yearnings", I can remember being attracted to girls at a young age. Catching a glimpse of a naked woman on TV or something made it feel like the pit of my stomach was diving through the earth. I recently read Simon Pegg's autobiography, and he describes the same feelings at the same kind of age (7/8) and oddly over the same woman (Carrie Fisher). I know Ben has also described similar feelings over seeing men/boys at a young age. I'd be interested to know if there are any others here who have had it, but I always assumed (which means I must have some source of recognised group experience to draw from) that most people get these sudden yearnings and feelings before they have the emotional/biological capacity to understand or deal with them? Of course I may be wrong on this front and the three of us mentioned are the minority here :lol:
So anyway, I don't entirely disagree with what you're saying and Kim is right that it's an ambiguous argument you can't really have because nobody knows enough to be able to formulate a real argument for or against. There are gay people, there are straight people, there bisexuals and there are people with massive sexual issues. The only thing we can say for certain is that the latter group tend to be caused by psychological issues. The rest? My gut says that it's inherent because the majority of people just react completely naturally to their sexual awakenings and are (I think) aware of it before they're intellectually aware that there is a sexual world outside of their bodies.
The thing that blurs the issue is that there's no clear collection of data. While estimates are 15% of people are homosexual, there are also "findings" that around 10% of people just don't care in a true bisexual sense.
You're right that we tend to try and mimic what we see as we grow up, and for those 10%, then they will almost certainly be more comfortable going "the way of their parents". It's not a choice, it's just a preference - like an ambidextrous person may favour one hand over another because the world makes life easier to be one way or the other (right handed ). Eventually habit and comfort make you unaware there was perhaps another way you could have gone.
Jake also brings up a good point. Under a highly emotional, psychological trauma, then I think that things like sexuality can be determined. It's not something that is common though, and it's certainly not something that I'd hope is relevant to the discussion about parenting At an age where you're emotionally vulnerable, then your psychological profile can be twisted into a psychosis. I doubt anyone that has ever been under the stress of rape or molestation will ever have a truly natural/normal attitude towards sex anyway -hmmm, if there is such a thing.
As for "sexual yearnings", I can remember being attracted to girls at a young age. Catching a glimpse of a naked woman on TV or something made it feel like the pit of my stomach was diving through the earth. I recently read Simon Pegg's autobiography, and he describes the same feelings at the same kind of age (7/8) and oddly over the same woman (Carrie Fisher). I know Ben has also described similar feelings over seeing men/boys at a young age. I'd be interested to know if there are any others here who have had it, but I always assumed (which means I must have some source of recognised group experience to draw from) that most people get these sudden yearnings and feelings before they have the emotional/biological capacity to understand or deal with them? Of course I may be wrong on this front and the three of us mentioned are the minority here :lol:
So anyway, I don't entirely disagree with what you're saying and Kim is right that it's an ambiguous argument you can't really have because nobody knows enough to be able to formulate a real argument for or against. There are gay people, there are straight people, there bisexuals and there are people with massive sexual issues. The only thing we can say for certain is that the latter group tend to be caused by psychological issues. The rest? My gut says that it's inherent because the majority of people just react completely naturally to their sexual awakenings and are (I think) aware of it before they're intellectually aware that there is a sexual world outside of their bodies.