kir said:
I'd really like to think straight men feel the same way; just because they're straight it doesn't mean they can't appreciate other guys. I might just be too open minded, but I'd like to think that's the way a lot of guys work, even when they don't admit it. BUT, I can also appreciate that that some people are 100% heterosexual or 100% homosexual. A lot of girls admit to "fancying" other women on the rare occasion, I just wish the men who feel the same had the guts to say so.
Personally, I've never been able to see what is attractive in a man. I can understand what is ugly, but not what makes a man attractive (if you can see the difference)?
I mean, I could tell you who was better looking between Kir, Sam, AeRo and Pierre (age permitting Peter
). Yet I understand that none of them are ugly.
If I was looking at four female members, then I'd probably say I'd find one more attractive than the others, and grade them, even if I didn't particularly fancy any of them.
There's just nothing there when I see a man. They may as well be a Giraffe.
It's worth noting that I don't find the idea of homosexuality repulsive at all though. Again, it does nothing for me positive or negative.
I do believe that when you're young though, you spend a fair while in a state of almost pure sexuality. It's a kind of wilderness where you'd shag just about anything. You might find a girls attractive, but wonder what a boy on boy experience would be like. I'll bet that a lot of the gay men on here have had sex with a girl. I don't see why it's so far fetched that blokes could also harbour a wondering what it would be like butter side down.
This is why a lot of people are confused when they're younger. They fancy girls/boys (delete as applicable), but have had thoughts about experimenting. As the years go on, you settle down and things follow their natural course. You've always been inherently gay/bi/straight, but it takes a while for the sexual mist to clear.
