Sex before marriage?
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Jools
Giga Poster
Ben said:
I thought it was a well known fact that 1/5 (I think it's more now) people lost there virginity before they were 16.
I don't see anything wrong with it, considering the divorce rate, the married couple is likely o break up anyway, and not many people nowadays want to get married but just be a couple, infact it's almost the most popular thing to do, so if we say no marriage no sex, the world would be very depressed, and the population would drop rapidly, mind you that could be a good thing.
Screaming Coasters
Strata Poster
Sex education at school was nothing more than watching a penis get hard on TV.
Watch porn, learn all your best moves on there.
Watch porn, learn all your best moves on there.
LiveForTheLaunch
CF Legend
I heard somewhere that 14 is the average age to lose your virginity in Canada... I thought that was pretty nuts. Dunno how true it is, though.
Sex ed in school is a JOKE. They don't tell you about the good parts of sex (which happens to be about 99.9% of it), only that if you do it, you're CERTAINLY gonna get an STD of some sort, so they show you pictures to scare you off it, and if you don't get an STD, you're definitely getting pregnant and your partner is gonna ditch you to be a single mother!
ciallkennett
Strata Poster
Let's be honest. Only about half of CF has had sex. I haven't. Boo hoo. I have a right hand. Wahay! I cba to wait for marriage to pop along. So I'll pop in, out, shake her hand and move on.
Sex and religion don't bond well for me. Most Christians say sex is for marriage, and marriage only. Others are little horny sluts who want all the cock they can get. From my experience, Christians and other religious people, find it very hard to talk about sex openly, which is probably why they stay virgins for so long and have] to wait to be married to do it.
Little off topic, but do Roman Catholics believe porn is right. I mean, as long as the couple are in a safe, secure marriage, not wearing a condom, and most cer6tainly not squirting all over their breasts, face or mouth, pornography is acceptable, right?
Sex and religion don't bond well for me. Most Christians say sex is for marriage, and marriage only. Others are little horny sluts who want all the cock they can get. From my experience, Christians and other religious people, find it very hard to talk about sex openly, which is probably why they stay virgins for so long and have] to wait to be married to do it.
Little off topic, but do Roman Catholics believe porn is right. I mean, as long as the couple are in a safe, secure marriage, not wearing a condom, and most cer6tainly not squirting all over their breasts, face or mouth, pornography is acceptable, right?
danielfitzgerald99
Hyper Poster
Ideally people should wait until marriage for the obvious reasons of unwanted pregnancy's, STI's etc.
However I know most people won't, myself probably included. However I would rather do it with someone that I was in a relationship with. I am opposed to just loose, promiscuous sex.
However I know most people won't, myself probably included. However I would rather do it with someone that I was in a relationship with. I am opposed to just loose, promiscuous sex.
CedarPoint6
Hyper Poster
I'll wait till marriage, thanks.
I have not been brought up to "respect" sex.
By that, I don't mean that I go around raping whoever I find sexy, or that it's a scared experience that should be shared with somebody I love.
Sex education for me was putting a jonny on a banana at school and talking about the dangers of STI's. None of my teachers, parents or any other influential adults in my life, ever told me that sex was something that should be an act of love between two people.
Therefore , no. I do believe in sex before marriage otherwise, I would have married when I was 17 years old. Sometimes the animal instinct takes over.
If you want to save the pleasure of sex until you find the right person that I think that's admirable. Slightly wrong, if I'm honest, but I guess if you don't know what you're missing then you won't miss it.
By that, I don't mean that I go around raping whoever I find sexy, or that it's a scared experience that should be shared with somebody I love.
Sex education for me was putting a jonny on a banana at school and talking about the dangers of STI's. None of my teachers, parents or any other influential adults in my life, ever told me that sex was something that should be an act of love between two people.
Therefore , no. I do believe in sex before marriage otherwise, I would have married when I was 17 years old. Sometimes the animal instinct takes over.
If you want to save the pleasure of sex until you find the right person that I think that's admirable. Slightly wrong, if I'm honest, but I guess if you don't know what you're missing then you won't miss it.
BetaKitten
Mega Poster
It's a personal choice... But to be honest marriage is the natural succession
of a loving and commited relationship. Having sex can make couples closer and while it's not the be all and end all it still is an important part of a relationship that i find hard to be constrained only to once your wed. In my opinion it's illogical to wait and then have the chance of runing your lovely wedding day with a rather awkward evening
of a loving and commited relationship. Having sex can make couples closer and while it's not the be all and end all it still is an important part of a relationship that i find hard to be constrained only to once your wed. In my opinion it's illogical to wait and then have the chance of runing your lovely wedding day with a rather awkward evening
It's fine as long as you are in a proper relationship, I'm strongly against promiscuity and I'm not having sex until I am in a strong relationship.
I also think that anyone 16 or under doing it is wrong as well, call me boring, but it's just morally wrong for kids to be having sex in my opinion. I just think it's wierd and wrong hearing people at school talking about who they've shagged.
I also think that anyone 16 or under doing it is wrong as well, call me boring, but it's just morally wrong for kids to be having sex in my opinion. I just think it's wierd and wrong hearing people at school talking about who they've shagged.